Blackmail

Sometimes people just go to far in their insanity and their obsessions. Sometimes people don't know when to stop their temper tantrums and call it a night. Sometimes people don't know when to let go and just move on instead of trying to fuck with every body all the damn time.

Malcolm and I have a would-be blackmailer. Medusa, the Psycho Stalker Bitch is attempting to torture Jachin by saying she will "ruin" Malcolm and I, knowing full well that Jachin loves us both and doesn't want to see that happen. So we all three of us conferenced tonight about the issue, and made a decision. You can't blackmail someone by threatening to reveal information if that information is already out there. So we made the decision to go public about an issue we faced in late January. Here's our story....

Jachin and I, as I've already said, were in a love relationship for 6 years. When we broke up, I raged at him, and ran to get STD tested because he had been cheating on me with Medusa, and having bareback sex with the both of us. All my results came back 100% clean, and I calmed down and realized that he may just have been lucky, but he had kept me clean and safe for 6 years. Jachin and I continued our sexual relationship, even after we broke up. It wasn't always frequent, but it was there, and it was always bareback. We had Malcolm's knowledge and support, albeit grudgingly at first, and later, more enthusiastic. Malcolm and Jachin are the only two men I share bareback sex with, with both their full knowledge and consent, and we all three of us share a wonderful sex life. My sex life with Jachin picked up immensely when he moved in with Malcolm because he also shares my car, and of course, while I had hurt my foot, he was living with me. So we were boinking like crazy rabbits for awhile. Jachin also attended New Year's Eve with me.

Sometime in December, Jachin became infected with an STD named Trichomoniasis (www.trichomoniasis.com) He learned he had it from Medusa, who told him a couple days after New years. He had by then passed it to me, and I unknowingly passed it to Malcolm. What a giant pain in the ass. What was the source of the infection? Jachin had a bunch of new partners he'd been experimenting with, but he took care to cover up with them. He has one partner that he's been seeing for 15 years, which means all thru the time he was also seeing me. I've met her, and she might be alot of things, but she definitely isn't the source of the infection. There are basically 2 people it could have been. We'll leave it at that.

If you clicked the link, you'll see that Trich is the most common and most easily cured STD. I was diagnosed, took my 4 pills, and it was over. Same with Jachin, same with Malcolm. We all three took the opportunity to screen for the rest of the STD's since it was a New Year, and it had been longer than 6 months for Malcolm and I. Jachin had just been tested at the beginning of December because of his worries over his ex's infidelities and lies. The paperwork from that round of testing shows him being clean. I saw it. The good news for Malcolm and I is that we also both came out clean on everything else: and we advocate regular STD testing for everyone in the lifestyle. We were tested for Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Syphilis, AIDS, Herpes, and I'm sure some more that I can't think of the name. All Clean.

So that could have been the end of it. A stupid mishap, Jachin trusting someone he shouldn't have. He learned a valuable lesson and is meticulous about wrapping up now. Even he and I have stopped having bareback sex, it was really a disturbing incident for both of us. Neither Malcolm nor I are angry with him, we understood the risk, and we love him. But safety comes first. However that's NOT the end of it. Medusa, the Psycho Stalker Bitch, Satan, the Addiction...whatever name I've given her, they are all so appropriate. She lost her mind with jealousy that Jachin attended our party this weekend and has decided that she wants to "ruin" us. She has texted, in the past, to Jachin that someday she'll "get even" with me and that "I have it coming". So she texted to Jachin that she was going to post in some of our area groups that Malcolm and I have or had an STD. What more she was going to say I have no idea. She hates the fact that she'll never be allowed at our parties because she is certifiably crazy, really and truly insane. So here it is, for everyone to hear before she gets a chance to do her deed....

Yes we had an STD. It was called TRICH. We are cured. We are now clean of all STD's. Since we always play safe at parties, we never ever put any of our members at risk, in fact by the time the party came around we had both been treated. I've emailed all the area group owners telling them this exact story. I let them know she may try to post about it. Better that they hear it from me first, than hear me trying to clean up a raving lunatic's vomit. I can't guarantee that when they read that email that they won't ban her from their group. No group owner wants someone that could cause that much trouble for no other reason than spite and jealousy as a member. I can't tell them what to do, but I do have a longstanding relationship with most if not all of the group owners in Maine, NH, and Massachusetts, and they know me and they know I am honest to a fault, and that I wouldn't bullshit them about this. ~Trusted and Loved~ for a reason.

I refuse to be fucking blackmailed. I refuse to allow someone I love to be tortured and emotionally blackmailed on my behalf. I DAMN well won't allow someone to spew lies about me or the people I love. So Medusa, PSycho, Addiction, or your new name...Infection....your acid is old news.